LOVE YOURSELF! INSPIRATION
Overcoming Self-Sabotage
"Overcoming self-sabotage and finding the wisdom inside the wounds you've endured is one of the most important conversations you'll ever have with yourself. Honor it and know that it will change your life." ~ Debbie Ford
Have you noticed a pattern in the relationships you attract and create, whether personal or professional? Are there similar feelings that surface for you in association with these relationships? Let's go even deeper - what are the thoughts and beliefs you have about the people you are involved with? Are these thoughts similar to the ones you whisper to yourself? These whispers can be very subtle like when you make a mistake do you say to yourself - "that was sooo stupid of me," or when you look in the mirror - "I am so fat and ugly," or when you are feeling sad - "I am so pathetic." We are each very wise beings and posses so much knowledge within ourselves if we are willing to go deep to find the answers that can set us free.
It takes love, courage, patience and perseverance to have a conversation with yourself about why you create and attract pain into your life and then to accept responsibility for it. But haven't you been through difficult times already? Did you survive them? And didn't that experience make you a little bit stronger and wiser? While the same mistakes can be made, was there at least one lesson you learned from that difficult situation? Did it not change or propel you to transform your life in a positive way no matter how small?
For me, I was sick and tired of attracting the same type of person into my life to create yet the same type of relationship again and again. I finally woke up one morning and decided, no I was determined to create a spiritual partnership with someone who mirrored to me my light and love. I haven't been the same ever since because it has been a journey into the depths of my thoughts and feelings. I have realized and understand on a psycho-spiritual level that I was and am the creator of my reality.
Even though it was a painful experience realizing I played a large role in sabotaging my relationships and spent years blaming the people I was involved with, I am now spending the rest of my life consciously co-creating my world that is filled with love, happiness and peace. And whenever I experience pain, I stop and talk to my inner self to discover what it is that is stopping me from having what I really want. I honor it, then I quickly change it and life is now one big candy store with my name on it.
Is your life a yummy dessert or one big volcano erupting out of control? The power to change is within you, not out side of you. And isn't this a relief because you don't have to depend on anyone to do it? It is 100% up to you and you can create whatever you desire. Be the change you seek and what your heart longs for will find you.
You are so loved so love yourself just as much.